Thursday, January 19, 2012

Our New Home


Well, we officially moved in! Of course there is still one lingering suitcase in the guestroom, and about a million miscellaneous papers strewn about, and we are living off of the bare minimum… but still! Life has changed since the move. Even though it’s a slower pace and we don’t go out as frequently, there is calm in the atmosphere. I wake up in my own space and take comfort in knowing I will be here for three years. I don’t find myself longing for home as I did before. It’s kinda scary that by being here, in my own home, I find more of my mother within myself. This is by no way a bad thing, she is an amazing woman, it’s just eerie. I clean a lot, and clean up after someone (no names), a lot. When I’m sweeping or washing dishes I can just see her doing the same, and feeling frustrated but loving too. He drives me crazy with all the messes, but when I dwell too hard I remember why I’m doing it in the first place and remember the love I have for him like the love my mom has for me. There is still much to learn about being on my own for the first time, but in those moments it feels like my mom is closer than ever. When Matt and I talked about moving before we even got on a plane, I only asked him for two things to be in our new home. All I asked of him was for a washer/dryer in the house and a bathtub. Gloriously, we have both! Of course it’s like jumping a hurdle to get in the tub and the dryer door opens halfway into the side of the washer, but alas I have both! This is our home and we already love it. As my good friend Katie pointed out, we have wonderful lighting here. Our location is also pretty sweet considering we are a block away from the commissary and a little bit further to reach the Post Exchange. Everything is within walking distance so I don’t have to rely on the shuttle anymore, and I can pretend that I’m exercising daily!
Days now consist of sweeping, swiffering, dishes and sometimes dinner. Matt tries to help when he can or sometimes asks for feedback on what he can do better to help the household stay clean and I adore him for that. Other than that, I try to get a workout in once a day. If you are a friend on facebook you should be able to see that we have started Crossfit! Of course just as important as keeping your body strong and fit, is engaging your mind to do just the same.
I started school on Monday, MLK day. It’s appropriate to start on such a motivational foot, and I’m thankful for that. I am currently enrolled in a women’s studies class as well as a computer skills class. They are both online and take a lot of reading, but I dig it.
This past weekend we met our future furry daughter. The Mazie’s were kind enough to drive us out an hour into the countryside to see our puppy-to-be and it was definitely an experience. First of all, Jon drove us in a tiny Ford Fiesta on the autobahn. I don’t know how many of you guys have had the chance to experience it, but that thing is NUTS. Imagine a freeway in California, where it’s easy to see people pushing 80 but along with them the grandma’s doing 55 in the slow lane. Once you have that, change the 80 to the slow lane with some crazy random station wagons/vans/sedans of all different brands passing you pushing 110 in the fast lane. Jon was saying that you have to look really far behind in your mirrors because people creep up so quickly. The highlight of the autobahn was getting passed by a 458 Ferrari that was going so fast our car not only shook, but moved over at least 6 inches to the right of the lane. We were all dumbstruck, but loved watching it zoom off. J Once off the autobahn, we drove through the countryside and I swear it looked like the emerald city. Everything was a lush green and the sun had come out of the gray drizzle it had hidden behind a majority of our trip. Matt and I both agreed it was a mesmerizing sight to behold. We plan on taking photos the next time we go to pick up our pup in mid February. The Germans we are buying our little girl from speak very little English. It was funny to watch both Matt and I trying to gesture and reword and guess the dialogue we were having together. Mr. & Mrs. Bruno take very good care of their dogs. We saw all eight puppies at four weeks of age, and to be honest, you can’t really tell the different between the little black furballs. Along with the pups, we met the mother and father dog and another female they had. They were all kenneled but came out of their spaces with enthusiasm that wriggled their entire bodies from snout to tail. When the time was over for visiting, the owners merely asked the dogs back into the kennel and they went happily. Some of you may know that we planned on naming our female Sabine, however we have to give her a pedigree name beginning with the little title letter, which is J in this case. Right now we are deciding between Jannike (Yah-Nick-Ah) or Jnka (Yeen-Kah).  Who knows what will happen, but regardless I will love her just the same.
I guess that’s enough obsessive talk for one dog, so I move on. We had some really great news today! Our car is officially here and ready to pick up!!! Yayyy!!!!! Even more exciting, Matt promised the pet store and IKEA as our first road trip. :D Just as exciting, our household goods (all the items at my home in California and storage), might be here as well! This means that not only could we have a car, but our house can be put together by the end of next week!!! So much to plan! Not much else is happening to us on this side of the world, but I hope that home is treating you all well! Here are some pictures of our house and what it looks like now:



This is our living room, the couches were provided by the military temporarily. The rug we bought.
The windows are super open, and that door to the right leads to our very small patio!

Our living room seems really long and this was taken behind the two arm chairs that are shown in the picture above. We are on the second floor of our building, and that brown strip to the left of the TV is our front door.

I told you our patio was small! We want to put two chairs and a small table out here, so when summer comes  I can blog out there and Matt can read next to me. <3

Better view of our windows. If you look out those windows you are staring at an open area in front of our home, and the middle school/elementary school. With the windows open you can hear the kids at recess. 

From the last picture, imagine you did a 180 and now you're looking at our dining room. The table and chairs were provided by the military temporarily as well.

To the right of our dining room is our kitchen, which holds my VERY tiny laundry room. The washer is on the left and loads from the top, the dryer is on the left and only opens INTO the front of the washer. Laundry can get really intense after like 4 loads.

Here is our kitchen. I love how we have a lot of windows! The microwave we bought and same with the dishrack/dishes/utensils, but it works! This photo was taken from the back wall of our laundry room.

This is our stove and cabinets! Photo was taken from our bar section of our countertop that sits behind our dining room table. 

Our view from the dining room. The high school football field. I hear all the announcements daily, and can hear the bell when periods are changing, but it's bearable with the windows closed. 

This is our hallway! You can see our coat closet on the left, and the next door to the left is our room. Directly ahead is our guestroom, which they decided to put TWO twins in. To the right of that, is our linen closet, and then our bathroom, which looks like another hallway.

Our bathroom is tiny, and has only one sink. Fortunately the mirror is lower than it was in the hotel!

I told you it was a hallway. That is as far as the door opens lol. 

Our bedroom! It's spacious, and that's all CLEAN laundry that I did earlier that morning. Remember what I said about the dryer though?!?! It was awful. 

The leftovers of moving. Last suitcase and items that don't really have homes. If anyone comes to visit, this room will be spotless without that mess on the bed. Lol, please don't be discouraged by what you see!!


Thankfully, our apartment has a lot of American and German outlets. The big white blocks you see under our windows are our heaters, and we actually don't have AC. No one does. Strange, but when the windows are all open it's gets cool quick! Let me know if you have any questions!!! 






Monday, January 2, 2012

Welcome 2012..

“This is the beginning of a new day. You have been given this day to use as you will. You can waste it or use it for good. What you do today is important because you are exchanging a day of your life for it. When tomorrow comes, this day will be gone forever. In its place is something you have left behind. Let it be something good.” –Unknown

I read this quote today on pintrest and I fell in love. I came home with Matt today after a day of exploring and I really feel like this captured the point of today. We had a wonderful conversation over dinner and discussed life in Germany for the first time. You would think this type of connection would have come earlier, but it didn’t and I’m sorta glad for that. We were given the opportunity to reconnect as one and get on the same page. We talked of how relaxed the way of living is here compared to home in the states. We talked about how America dominates the entertainment world. We talked of working on enjoying life here together. We talked about my cathartic nature to write only about every negative thing in life instead of anything positive. We talked about both of our struggles with adjusting.
It all started when we were out exploring. We decided after a day of not leaving the hotel and wearing our pajamas all day that it was time to get out. We planned on just taking a stroll to a local hotel about 2 miles away. The path we chose cut through a super muddy field and when we finally got through the half mile of murky goo, my new boots were gross enough to make me look like a homeless person. I don’t know how I managed it, but I was caked from the soles to just about my kneecaps. It was awful because I didn’t notice it until I got some funny stares. L Matt was charming as always and suggested we stop so I could clean up and stop my meltdown to continue our adventure. As we trekked down to the hotel, we walked though an entirely cool park. The weather was cold today and I loved every minute. After perusing the park, we popped out at our destination! I have never seen a hotel looking this glorious in such a random spot. Matt told me that an emperor built it for himself in 1904. It’s crazy how something this old can comfortably sit next to modern architecture as well.


Such beautiful scenery!
Dear Alfred, I am in the mud, be proud!!! 

Muddy boots :(
Some sweet house we walked by after the trail.

Sweet house #2.
 

Entrance of park, taken by my phone. :]

Husband + Ducks.


Misc statue #1.


Misc statue #2. Creepy kids!

This is awesome. 

Random theater in Park.

Side of hotel destination.

View looking out from the hotel.

The hotel. 
Sidewalk of the hotel, completely modern, but looking back you see this crazy old structure!

Walking into Downtown.

I really like buildings. :)


Different views to show you just how cool and movie-like it is here!!! :D I love this part.


This is my favorite picture of the day. It's of Little Italy (I think), and it's dedicated to my sister Christina, who would totally love it here. I mees you seester!



Overall we walked about 3 miles but it was worth every muddy step!  Downtown Wiesbaden is like going somewhere out of the movies because it’s all so clean and close together with these awesome cobblestone walk ways. It was nice to get out and see all the local shops and restaurants, especially little Italy. J
Going back to our talk, we were able to see what life could be like together here. It’s so much slower, and I think it’s refreshing. As much as I loved being in a fast paced environment, I feel like we are getting a chance to take a deep breath and soak it all in. Dinners here at a restaurant easily last 2 hours. I have been practicing eating slower and taking time to talk to whoever I’m with and enjoy their company. The servers hardly come to the table, which may seem rude, but if you look at it as time to be with your friends and family, it seems rude to interrupt that. Tonight, because of such customs, Matt and I were able to find our voices and see where we were at after almost a month of being here. He spoke to me about all the good things about Germany, how he copes with being away from his family, and how I should open up more to him. As I’ve said before, I’m left at home a lot alone, and I guess my resolution for this year is to be more proactive. We have this awesome camera that I pretty much suck at using when it’s on manual, and a whole new language to learn.
Speaking of being proactive, I register for school tomorrow. This week is pretty much going to consist of applying to financial aid so I can keep moving forward with my Bachelors in English. Another area to focus on, has been our future puppy. For those of you who don’t know yet, we have decided to get a German Shepherd!!! Yayy!!! If you know me at all, you should know I am obsessed with dogs. I think they see directly into your soul and can fulfill your life in a way no human can. I’m on my second book on training puppies and we have a breeder in place! If all goes well (keep your fingers crossed!), we should have a female puppy at the end of March. That’s about all the good news I have for now, but let me know if there is anything else you would like to know about.
Let the exploring begin! xoxo

New Years Eve

On NYE we went with the Mazie's to Frankfurt to explore! Here are some photos of some of the stuff we did and saw together. :) Most of our time was spent at a mall that had  7 stories. After we tired of that, Jon suggested we go to a building with lots of lights, and since shiny things are always a good idea, we went! 

This is taken after we explored the mall.

This was a church we saw (they are everywhere).


Jon & Katie bein' all cute!
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Shiny building. :)

Top of shiny building. 

Praying to God I don't fall off. 

This guy is WAY too comfortable being super high up.

Look how big that church was!!

This was probably my favorite thing to see. Awesome modern art made a part of every day life here. 
PS, can you find Katie & Jon?!!?